Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Who needs a repairman when you have Google?

The other night our dryer stopped producing heat. It was spinning and tumbling, but no heat.
Dollar signs were floating through my head thinking of the options: call a repairman or buy a new dryer. Face it. Both options suck and are expensive.

Jen and I did the first logical step. Called our dads to see if they could suggest a solution to the problem. Neither could offer much advice since they each have electric dryers and ours is gas/electric.
It could be the thermostat. Costly. It could be the pilot light is out (if it even has one.) It could be one of a few things.

I called Sears to see how much a visit from a repairman would be and if the dryer was still under warranty. Of course it is not. They basically had me by the balls at this point. The dollar signs once again fly through my head.

They wanted $75 just to look at it and diagnose the problem. $129.99 to look at it and cover labor to repair it (if repairable) but I would have to pay for the needed parts. $199.95 for a one year service agreement that would cover parts and labor up to $500.

Jen realized there is another option. Google. We each sat at our computers and started googling, trying several combinations of the name brand, the series, the model number and the phrase "won't heat."

She comes across Larry on JustAnswer.com. Larry gets paid to answer questions on JustAnswer and last year answered the exact question we were asking. He suggested the first thing to do is disconnect the thermal fuse and see if that is the problem.

So I did. I took the back of the dryer off, located the fuse, pulled the wires, reconnected them to each other and started up the dryer.

We have heat! Thanks Larry!

Now to locate a new thermal fuse. First stop was a run to Home Depot. Fail - they don't carry them in the store.

Back to the computer to Google it.
Searspartsdirect.com - Has the part. $15.27 + tax and shipping. A quick check on retailmenot.com shows a 10% discount for using the code 'retailmenot10.' So that knocks it down $1.53 to $13.74. Tax and shipping add $8. Meaning $21.74 total. And I have to wait 4 to 5 business days to get it.

Homedepot.com - Not in stock.

Amazon.com - Has a number of parts for sale ranging from $.01 + $6 shipping to $9.99 with free shipping. The problem is, while most of the sellers have very positive feedback, the shipping time says it will be about 10 business days. Way to long to wait without being to dry clothes.

I then started googling appliance shops in the area. I find one named Dave's Appliance Repair in Horsham -  about a 20 minute drive. I called the next day, and yes... they have the part in stock.
So after work yesterday I drove to Horsham, paid $12 for a fuse, came home, installed it and held my breath....
No sparks... No fire... But heat! Glorious heat!

We were lucky it was a simple repair and only spent $12 to fix it. But I would have been pissed if I paid up to $199.99 to find out it was $12 part that took only 5 minutes to replace (and that included taking off and putting on the back.) Savings for the day - up to $187.99.

So that's my bit of advice for you today. When something breaks at home. Google it. See if you can find a solution before calling a repairman or buying a new one.

Once again, if you have any thoughts or suggestions for Dave's Deals For Guys and Dads, please let me know.














Thursday, March 22, 2012

Ditch the gym and make your wallet fat

2012 was the year I was going to enter my first Warrior Dash. I was even going to start training for it too. But better things are happening in June so I'm going to have to skip this year's Dash and maybe try for 2013.

A few friends of mine have crashed the courses at these totally insane events. One of the guys who is crazy enough to sign up is Sean G. After a life filled with Gannon's wings and Lager, Sean has started working out and getting fit (not that he was ever a fat ass to begin with.)

Sean and his wife, Heidi, workout together and also like to save together. When he decided to buy a suspension trainer, he googled and found branded training straps (TRX - portable bodyweight training tools) would cost about $200.

He then found this YouTube link showing how to build your own suspension trainer for about $30.

(Not really knowing what a suspension trainer is, I googled it. There are a wide variety of versions from $75 to $200 for sale on the web... Seems rather expensive to me. I just might try to build the contraption and see how it works, but for now, I thought it would be best to share what Sean shared.)

Back to Sean, I 'interviewed' him via Facebook (asked a couple of questions to which he was nice enough to respond.)

Sean and Heidi wanted to save some money. Their gym membership cost them $75 a month for the two of them and it was adding up fast.

"I quit paying for a gym and am looking at ways to stay in shape and be functionally strong," said Sean via Facebook. "When are we going to bench 300 lbs in real life? Never...but we will carry 10, 50lb bags of mulch from the car to backyard. That function fitness."

They bought sandbags (article from Mensfitness.com), a pull-up bar, and the supplies for the straps for under $300. Now using their own home gym, plus walking more, they are saving over $900 a year! As Sean puts it, "My equipment... will pay for itself in 4 months That's $75 a month back in my pocket!!!!That's Fatherly Frugality!"

Sean and Heidi also keep motivated by posting the results of their sandbag training and running on FaceBook. Who needs a personal trainer when you have all of your friends following your progress?
I just looked up some gym membership prices in my area. Planet Fitness - $19.99/month. LA Fitness/Bally - $520 a year (they try to trick you by saying $9.95/week). Philly's 12th Street Gym - $39/ month ($369/year + $99 fee / 12 months).

And each time you  pass by a gym, you usually just see people on treadmills anyway.... They pay up to $520 a year to walk indoors? Seems a little out there for me. I'd rather take a walk around the block or walk up and down my stairs a few times before doing that. But that's just me.

If you do decide to workout at home, YouTube is filled with workout videos. Just search your interest and see what pops up. And of course, always consult your doctor before beginning any exercise program. I'm in no way or shape a person you should be taking thoughts on how to workout... but I am a guy that can save you money when you do.
Thanks to Sean for the link and the help. Good luck to you and Heidi at the Warrior Dash. Hope to see you there in 2013!





Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Eats, reads, and the rest - 3 sites for online shopping

Online shopping is huge. Many retailers now offer more inventory on their web sites than in the brick and mortar store.
So how can you turn this into big savings? Know where to shop, before you shop.
Here are three sites that will save you money.

Restaurant.com - If you love to eat out, then you'll like this site. Search your neighborhood - or any neighborhood - for gift certificates at local restaurants. Most are $10 for $25. But there are many times you can score a gift card for much, much cheaper. You just buy the gift certificate, print it out, and use it.
Right now if you use the promo code 'HURRY' you can get a $25 gift certificate for $2! A $23 savings. This deal ends Wednesday 3/21 so you better hurry to get it.
When buying, always check the restrictions listed for each place. Some say you must buy a certain amount of food (usually $35 with a $25), can not use for alcohol, are only good on weekdays, or some other slight restrictions. Most certificates do not expire so you can hold on to them for a bit after buying on the cheap.
I've used Restaurant.com along with Yelp.com before going on trips to see what is in the area and find great places to eat. Jen and I also have a few in our car for areas we frequent so we can grab a bite out.
I've also heard of people buying gift certificates for Restaurant.com on the cheap and then buying the actual gift cards for the real restaurants for even bigger savings.

Half.com - This is the sister site of Ebay. You can buy and sell books, cds, DVDs, video games and even VHS tapes. New. Used. Broken, beaten and scarred. Simply search for the item you want, and if it is available for sale, a list of sellers will come up.  You pick what condition you want the item (brand new to acceptable), and the seller posts the price of the item. There is no bidding.
You buy directly from the seller and because it is a part of Ebay, all the feedback info on the seller is right there for you to view.
Shipping charges are also closely regulated on Half.com. The shipper does not choose the shipping fee, all fees are set by Half.com. So you do not have to worry about someone posting an item for $2, then charging $10 for shipping. Shipping costs are based on current USPS Media Mail rates and a few cents thrown in for packaging.
You can also make money on Half.com. Jen would sell her used text books and when she moved to Philly we sold a few duplicate books from our collections. It's very easy to set up, start selling, and start earning money. Half.com does charge commission ranging from 15% to 5% based on the price of the item. The buyer also pays for shipping. When shipping, I would see what the cheapest option was. Sometimes it was media mail - which is what the buyer paid for - but other times it would be  first class - which gets the item to the buyer sooner.

Retailmenot.com - This is the grandpoohba of all sites. It is the one I find most of the deals and online coupons that I use.
Before you do any online shopping, search this site for deals and codes other people have been using. That's how I just spotted the Restaurant.com deal above.
JCPenny, Sears, Kohls, Babies R Us, REI, Advance Auto Parts, and hundreds of other online stores are listed with money saving coupons. They could be deals for a certain percent off, or for free shipping, or free items... or just about anything. Before you shop online. check this site out!
We just bought blinds for the house. Both a brick and mortar store and online store had them. The B&M was cheaper at first glance. But after checking Retailmenot.com, we found a 60% off, plus free shipping, plus another 10% off that we combined to get the blinds for almost half of what it would have cost us at the B&M store.

If you don't find what you are looking for on Retailmenot.com, then Google the store you are thinking of using with 'coupon code.' Other sites may have great discounts.
Any thoughts, comments or suggestions? Let me know.

Next up, I'll tackle how to make your own exercise equipment and stop spending money at the gym. (Thanks to Sean G. for the suggestion.)

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Quick free stuff - Rita's, Legos, hashbrowns and....

On March 20 - the first day of spring - Rita's around the country are celebrating with free water ice from noon to 9pm. Click here to find a Rita's near you.

On April 3, Lego stores will teach your kids (ages 6 - 14) how to build a duck. Every month Lego stores have this free offer at all their locations. Here is how to find your closest Lego store.

Hungry? Get your free order of hashbrowns at Waffle House until March 31 with coupon.

And here's one for you to share... A free sample of Wet Personal Lubricant. Click the 'free sample link' at the top of this page. 

Saturday, March 17, 2012

The Lackawanna River's comeback, trout stocking, and 30% off Sherwin Williams

On March 31, trout season begins in the southeast corner of Pennsylvania - All waters in Adams, Berks, Bucks, Chester, Cumberland, Dauphin, Delaware, Franklin, Juniata, Lancaster, Lebanon, Lehigh, Montgomery, Northampton, Perry, Philadelphia, Schuylkill and York counties.

On April 14, it opens for the rest of the state.
3 Rainbows from the Wissahicken.
I love trout fishing, partialy because it is the only fishing I can do without driving over an hour from my place, but mostly because I find it relaxing and enjoyable. The other reason, fresh trout is just damn tasty.
If you live near the Lackawanna River, you don't have to worry much about trout stocking. While the river was once devoid of most aquatic life, it recent years it has made an amazing comeback in terms of trout. The Lackawanna is now a destination for fisherfolk who regularlly catch 17" - 22" wild brown trout. Yeah - natives!
In August 2010, WNEP's PA Outdoor Life did a great story on counting trout in the Lackawanna River. To view the story visit http://www.wnep.com/shows/paoutdoorlife/ then scroll back in the archives (under the video player box) to the 8-1 PA Outdoor Life. For anyone who remembers the Lacky being basically a dump back in the day, you'll be amazed at it now. (But I would still never eat a trout from it.)

If you are not lucky enough to be able to fish the Lackawanna River, then you have to rely on trout stocking. For an excellent list on when streams and lakes across PA will be stocked visit pfbc.state.pa.us/pfbc_webgis/TroutStockingDetails.aspx.


Finally -Sherwin Williams is now offering 30% off all paints until April 1 with a coupon. You can get the coupon by a) signing up for their email at Sherwin-Williams.com b) visiting Sherwin-Williams.com, go to the Homeowners site, then click Special Offers > Deals and Coupons.



Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Digger Bees - The Battle Starts Now


Indiana Jones hates snakes. With Henry Jones, Sr, it's rats.
With me. It's bees.  Why did it have to be bees?

Sunday morning I went to the backyard only to see hundreds of bees swarming across our yard, the neighbors yard, and the yard next door. The bees were everywhere flitting around anywhere from ground level to 5" off the ground.

The previous week, I noticed what appeared to be ant hills in the yard - about 100 little mounds of dirt with wide openings. Due to the previous owners neglect of the yard, it is mainly dirt and moss. One of my projects this spring is to actually grow a nice lawn back there so we can enjoy the yard.
I thought ants would be a set back, but I was not prepared for bees. Did I mention there were hundreds of them???

Not an ant hill

The bees seemed very docile and did not pay much attention to me, so I still went about making Shaddy's scratching pad (see other blog entry.)

I then jumped on Google to find out what I could about these pesky invaders. First search - Wasps. Very Dangerous. Ugh! I studdied the pictures and decided they were not wasps or yellowjackets. Whew!





Second search - Could be honey bees from the look... But honey bees only make one nest if they nest in the ground. These bees have holes everywhere! So honey bees are out.



Digger bee
 



Third search - Digger/miner bees. AHA! Thats's it! I finally knew what I was dealing with - en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anthophorini. They are docile bees that dig individual holes in the ground ansd bring back pollen and necture to feed their larva. They are usually out in the spring but only for a few weeks. No one seems sure what they do after that. The thought is they lay their eggs i nthe ground where theysit for another fall/winter to hatch again the next year.





Bee's eye view of the yard

             Now how to deal with them?
Well I could try the Texas method - actually found in one forum - wait until night and pour gas in the holes.
Set up a long fuse, light, and watch what happens. Tempting but no.

I could do nothing - Forums say they will go away in a few weeks after the larva hatch... but they will be back next year. not sure about this one. With a little one on the way, I want my yard as a playground for the little one and not for bees.


I even emailed the Philly Bee Keepers Guild - Yes there is such a thing. They promptly called me and said while they have never heard of a swarm that large (it covers 3 freaking yards!), they were not sure what to do. The guy insisted they were beautiful to watch and to just let nature take its course. Freaking hippie.

Digger bee digging
  
Then I talked to our attached neighor Francis. She said last year it happened but with waaaaay less bees. She gave me an old school recipe to keep bugs and things away.
1 capful lemon scented ammonia
1 cup water
1 capful mint mouthwash
A squirt of lemon scented liquid soap
Apply with a hose attachement at night after the bees go in for the night.


Update:
While I was going to use Francis' approach tonight, I just talked to Mike McGrath, host of WHYY-FM's You Bet Your Garden and he set me straight. whyy.org/91FM/ybyg/index.html
Digger bees do not have stingers. They will go away in 2 weeks or so. After that, reset the lawn and grow grass to 3". Always mow with a sharp blade. And do not harm the bees.
Digger bees are the first pollenators of the year and are responsible for the cherry blossoms, peaches, and much more. They are also some of the last native bees left so you should not harm them.
Also - wasps sting, bees do not (much).

I feel much better after talking to him... but I still hate bees.






Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Free Paint, Free Toothpaste and Free BK Fries

When I started this blog I promised some free stuff. So here it is! Some free stuff!

Free Colgate Toothpaste – Go to coupons.com. Click and print the $1 off Colgate coupon (and any other coupons you want.) You can print at least 2 of most coupons from the site by re-visiting coupons.com (or clicking a few times on your <---backspace button)
How to get it for free – Shop Rite has Colgate on sale for $.77 from Wednesday (3/14) to Saturday (3/17).

Free guide to visiting Alaska – What’s more manly than going to Alaska???
http://www.travelalaska.com/Planners/Planner.aspx?utm_source=2259&utm_medium=ad

Free paint from Ace Hardware – Score a free quart of paint from Ace Hardware just by visiting their FaceBook page and printing a coupon - www.facebook.com/acehardware. You don’t even have to ‘like’ them to print it. You even get to choose the color.



Free Burger King Fries – March 17 & 18. No coupons needed. Roll up to your local BK and get a free value size fries with Heinz St. Paddy’s Day dipping sauce… AKA green ketchup. (One free fry person, no purchase necessary)



Monday, March 12, 2012

Sherwin Williams Kicks the Bucket (Sale)

Old master bedroom! Yikes!!!!
The largest undertaking since buying the house has been painting. On my own, I've painted 5 rooms, a stairwell, the ceilings and a hallway since December. I even painted all the trim.

Before starting the job, I asked my Dad for some advice on painting. He took me to my local Sherwin Williams. He has used SW for almost all of his painting projects and has always been satisfied with the results.

One reason he uses SW (and I will from now on as well) is the staff of every store he went to was knowledgeable. They know their paint and can offer advice on almost any project. I've found this to be true at my local SW on Rising Sun Ave in Philadelphia.

Starting Tuesday, March 13 and running until Thursday, March 17, Sherwin Williams is running their annual Blue Bucket Sale. Buy a bucket for $3.99 and you get 35% off anything you can stuff in the bucket. This is a great deal because their usual paint accessory sales are only 15% off. I won't be able to hit this sale because I don't really need anything right now, but if I did the Rising Sun location is offering a free breakfast buffet on Wednesday.

Minus the wallpaper
Other Sherwin Williams sales to watch:
- Register online and receive a $10 off $50 printable coupon. You will also receive random offers via email.
- Every few months SW distributes coupons in Sunday newspapers and online. These are usually for 25% or 30% off all paint and 15% off all accessories.
- WS also runs a great 40% off sale every few months. If you ask at your local SW, they will let you know when the next one is. The last one just ended in February.
Another helpful money saving tip:
During the sales, buy white paint in the style you want. Then when you decide what color you really want, come back and have it tinted to your color choice for free. If you buy too much paint, they will only accept returns on white paint, but they will not take back tinted paint.
You can find your local store and other help painting advice at Sherwin-Williams.com.

Cat Scratch Fever - Making a Scratching Pad

We have a cat. A big 22lb monster of a cat named Shaddy.

And like most cats, Shaddy loves to scratch. He also prefers to scratch while stretching out and not standing on his hind legs. Needless to say most products made for cats are not really made for large fuzzballs like Shaddy. Jen has tried several scratching posts but he just ignores them in favor of stretching out and scratching. We never bought one he can stretch out on because we knew he just wouldn't fit.

While making the house our own, we removed most of the carpet from the 2nd floor. The only carpet we left was on the steps to the second floor and the landing at the top of the steps. That landing has become where Shaddy now likes to scratch. We tried to correct him, but it is the only place in the house with carpet so it's naturally the only place he will scratch.
We bought a new kitchen island for our place, and the granite was enclosed in a wooden frame to protect it. I told Jen I was going to use the frame and the carpet we pulled to make a lay down scratchpad for Shaddy. She thought it was a great idea.

So Sunday while she was out, I went into the garage/driveway and made a scratching pad for Shaddy.



First I removed the staples and any metal from the carpet. Using a boxcutter, I cut the carpet to the needed size.

I then used a drill to secure the carpet in place with several screws. I made sure to overlap the carpet around the box so it could reach beyond the bottom of the wood. The screw heads are deep in the plush of the carpet and should not be a problem for Shaddy when scratching. I made sure to use as few screws as possible on the surface.



With the carpet secure, I flipped it over and trimmed the excess carpet around the bottom. I glued the edges of the carpet to the wooden frame to ensure Shaddy would not be able to pull up the carpet from under when scratching and playing. I also placed some felt circles on the edges so it would not scratch our hardwood floors if he is able to move the pad.




Here is the finished scratch pad.







To introduce Shaddy to the pad, I tossed him a couple treats and placed the rest on the pad. He sniffed around and climbed up, ate the treats and walked off. Within the hour he was scratching away at the pad and placing his toys on it.


At night, he only scratched at the top of the stairs once. When he did, I corrected him and he went right down to the new scratching pad.

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Crock Pot Corned Beef

I can't be in Scranton for St. Pat's Parade Day this year. And there are many things I am going to miss. The great friends, the beer, the overpacked bars, the beer, and corned beef at Andy Gavin's near the end of the night.
So today I'm making corned beef in the crock pot at home.

Some people recommend getting 1 pound of corned beef per person because it does shrink when cooking. I usually buy a larger (originally spelled that 'lager' - guess you know where my mind is today!) one because today's left over corned beef is tomorrow morning's homemade corned beef hash!




Here's the ingredients and how much I paid for each.
4.35lb of corned beef. Regularly $2.99/lb. So it would have been $13.01. Paid $1.88/lb ($8.18 total)at Shop Rite. Savings of $4.38.
1lb carrots - $1 at Produce Junction.
Celery - $1.25 for 2 celery hearts at Produce Junction.
2 lbs red & fingerling potatoes - Under $1/lb at Produce Junction.
2 heads cabbage - Under $1 head at Produce Junction.
1 dark beer (optional). I omitted out of respect for the up coming baby.
Water to cover.
Crock pot bag for easy clean up.


Step 1 - Cut up veggies.
Step 2 - Trim fat from corned beef. Save the seasoning packet that comes with the corned beef.


Step 3 - Put crock pot liner in crock pot and add veggies to bottom of crock pot. Crock pot liner will make clean up much easier and it does not hurt the flavor.


Step 4 - Then place corned beef on top of veggies and sprinkle seasoning packet over the entire thing.


Step 5 - Add 12oz dark beer (optional) and then cover with water.

Step 6 - Turn on low for 8 - 9 hours while you go about your business. (Or high for 4 hours - but cooking on low will result in a more tender piece of meat). Try not to take top off crock pot while cooking. Each time you take it off, it releases heat and could add up to 30 minutes of cooking time. Crock potting is not exact. So anywhere from 8 - 9 hours on low is good. I've even left it in for 10 and it was still great. 

Step 7 -  When corned beef is done, remove beef and veggies. DO NOT discard the water! Keep the crock pot covered as much as possible to keep water hot. Cover the veggies and corned beef with foil to rest.

Step 8 - Cut up cabbage into 6 pieces or so and add to water. Cover and let cook for 30 minutes while corned beef rests.

Step 9 - Enjoy your corned beef! I like mine with a few splashes of vinegar and some Irish Soda bread.


Lessons from Trout Fishing

I wrote this way back in 2009 when I was just starting to trout fish. And with the season beginning in Philadelphia in just a few weeks (March 31), thought it would be a good time to share.

I buy most of my fishing supplies at the little shop where I buy my live bait. Hooks, sinkers, and lines may cost a little more there over Dick's Sporting Goods, but if we don't support small businesses when we can, they will not be around. And Dick's doesn't sell live bait!

So from 2009, here are 10 Lessons I Learned from Trout Fishing.
First you catch the fish
This year I decided to really try my hand at trout fishing. I have been fishing since I was a little kid and have mainly went lake fishing for bass, perch, pike, and others. Trout fishing always remained a mystery to me.
A few years ago I tried trout fishing at a creek near my place. I didn’t have much success because I didn’t know what I was doing, and trout fishing is much different than bass fishing. I got frustrated and gave it up for a while.
I went this year on opening day of trout with Jen’s Dad. He showed me a few tricks and helped me to figure out where the fish were and how to cast to the right spots. It was great. Since then, I have tried to hit the river at least once a week. Each day I’ve gone home with at least one nice size rainbow trout.
While I’m on the creek, I have a lot of time to think about things in my life. And I’ve learned a lot about myself and life on those fishing trips. So I decided to write down some of the things I’ve learned and share them. It may be a little hokey, but what the heck…

1. When your hook gets snagged, relax on the line and 95% of the time it’ll work its way loose.
Don’t let the stress of hitting a snag get to you. In fishing, you let the line go slack and the current will most likely pull the hook (or sinker) off the obstacle. If you instead pull and pull some more at the snag without trying to relax the line first, you could cause the snag to get worse. That means there’s a good chance your line is just going to snap and you’ll loose it all – your hook, spinner, and bait.
If you are working on something and hit a problem, step back for a second or two. The snag you hit in life may be a big one or a small one… In that first moment, relax and figure out if it is something you can let work itself out, if you need to pull some, or you need to tug with all your might.

2. If you’re snagged and it won’t come loose, there’s no shame in cutting the line. Just make a clean cut and leave as little damage as possible.
Of course there are times when the snag is to great to come undone on its own. You could have hooked a tree root, your sinker got caught between two rocks, or something like that. When that happens, you have to cut or break the line. Try to do so in a manor that will cause the least amount of damage to the area… you don’t want to leave 20 feet of fishing line underwater.
Some snags in life are just to great to overcome. You are not going to win every battle and sometimes you have to walk away. When you need to choose this path, do so leaving as little damage as possible and move on to the next
Then you clean the fish

3. If you get a strike and miss, cast to the same spot.
You’re reeling in your line and it goes tight, you pull and feel the strike. Even if you do everything right, you sometimes loose the fish as you are reeling in or maybe the hook never was set properly. There’s a good chance that fish went back to where it was. So check your bait and cast right where you did before. It could still be waiting.
Life is full of opportunities. If you take a chance and only partially succeed, try again! You know the opportunity is there, it’s waiting for you. Don’t give up so easily and go back for more.

4. Try reliable spots first.
There is one spot on the river I fish that I almost always at least get a strike. I go to that spot first. Always. No matter what.
If you have continued success with a formula or procedure, then try that way first. If it doesn’t work, then move on.

5. If they fish aren’t biting, don’t waste your time at one spot. If the fish aren’t there, they’re not going to bite.
Why waste your time when you don’t think there are any fish in the area, or the conditions aren’t right? There are plenty of spots along a river where the fish maybe. So try one for a while, and if you get nothing, don’t keep saying ‘one more cast and I’ll move on.” Just move on and try another spot. The worst that could happen is you don’t have any luck at the new spot.
Once you realize something in your life is not working for you, make a change. Identify what the problem is and take action.

6. Don’t be afraid to move to a new spot you’ve never tried before.
When I started fishing at the river, I would always stay to a 50 yard area that was easy to fish. As I became more comfortable with the river, I started to move up and down to new areas I never tried before. I had success at some, and nothing at others.
When working on a project and the tried and true does not seem right, then shake things up. Try something new you never did before. Break out of your comfort zone and go with it. At work lately, I find myself writing in new ways and taking new directions that I previously discarded because they were not the ‘traditional’ way of doing things. This has made me more aware of my comfort zones and more comfortable with breaking down those walls.

Then you grill the fish
7. Leave things the way they were when you arrived.
To me it is important that when I leave the river, I leave no trash behind. If I change hooks, I pack the old hook away and throw it out when I get home. I don’t leave packaging on the ground from worms or hooks or water.
This is a lesson I believed before I started fishing, but spending more time in the woods has really brought it back to a main thought in the way I live my life. If you are working on equipment that other people use, and you make changes to that equipment, normalize the equipment when you are done. At work, there are few things as frustrating as when someone changes a setting and does not set it back. I have spent hours trying to get equipment to work right after someone has ‘made a change’ for their project.

8. Ask other fishermen where they have success, what kind of bait they use, and for advice.
Each time I go to the bait shop near my place, I ask what people have been buying, what they’ve been catching, and if there are any spots the folks there would suggest I hit. I learned some valuable information about the river and the fish in there. At first I was nervous about asking, but once I explained I’m just starting to trout fish, the folks opened up and were great about advice.
There are no stupid questions. That is a rule I try to live by. It is better to ask if you don’t understand something, than to fail over and over because you were afraid to ask.


9. If the other fishermen won’t tell you anything – and even if they will – observe and learn.
This is my first year really trout fishing. So I’m trying to learn all I can about where the trout sit, what they eat, what water temperature they like, and on and on. Some fishermen are odd creatures… they don’t like to tell their favorite spots, or bait, or anything. Hell, some don’t even like telling you if they caught anything. (I’m looking at you elitist fly fisherman!) So I’ve taken to asking first, then observing. I’ll watch where they are casting, what type of bait (or lures) they use, when they arrive and leave. From that I’m learning a little more each day about the best places to cast, and how to be a better fisherman.
At work, there are a few reasons why people won’t give you information about equipment or procedures (I won’t get into those). So if I ask a question and am not provided an answer, I will pay attention while the person is working on the problem and see if I can figure it out for myself just from observing. It doesn’t work all the time, but I have picked up a few tricks.

10. Just have fun when you can.
Not sure I have to explain this one.
Then you eat the fish

Friday, March 9, 2012

Coupons Made Simple

Someone hands you 20 gift cards for Starbucks. Each has either $1 or $.75 on it. Would you throw them away?

Think of coupons in that way. Each week companies pay to print and distribute flyers full of money saving gift cards for their products - little slips of paper in newspapers (and posted online) that you can basically use as cash.

And most stores - from supermarkets to drugstores to major chains will gladly accept those little slips of paper as payment for products on their shelves.
That means the more of those little printed slips of paper you were given for basically nothing, help keep those big slips of green paper in your wallet to pay for more important items... such as beer.
Before I get into how it works, let me give you an example. Last week I used 4 coupons to score 4 boxes of Honey Nut Cheerios for $1! That's right $.25 each. A savings of $3.74 a box or $14.96 for all 4. Keep reading to find out how.

You can find coupons in most Sunday newspapers. Some newspapers have taken to distributing them on other days - Philly Inquirer does Saturday for home delivery, The Daily News sometimes puts the coupons in Wednesday or Thursday's paper.
In some areas (such as my neighborhood) grocery fliers and coupons are home delivered every Wednesday in the mail.

I admit on Monday mornings I take the coupons from the newspapers stacked up at work. My wife - Jen - will also take them from her work when no one else has taken them. This helps us gather multiple coupons for items that we want. If you buy a paper and there are several coupons you will use, weigh the cost of the paper with how much you will save by using the coupons.

There are also online sources for coupons. Some of the major sites are:
Coupons.com
RedPlum.com
SmartSource.com

These are free sites you do not have to register with. They offer a variety of coupons from many manufacturers. Pampers, Kellogg’s, Campbell's, Lysol, and so much more. You click on the ones you want, and then click print. Most sites will let you print out at least 2 of each coupon you choose. So how do coupons work? You clip them, buy the product they are for, and money is deducted from the price of that product when you check out. It's that easy.


Almost all stores will list the amount you saved on the bottom of the receipt. I have fun trying to beat my totals from previous trips. I usually average saving 50% when combining store sales and coupons. On good days, I have walked out of stores with over $75 worth of groceries, for less than $10.

Some may be thinking you don't have time to clip coupons. I thought the same thing until I realized there is plenty of time. Do you watch TV while relaxing? Just pick up the coupons and clip away. I usually watch TV while clipping and going through the circulars for the local stores (more on that in another blog.) Or I set aside 20 minutes one night a week to go through the coupons. There is always time to save money.

Most major grocery stores will also do something very cool. They will double - or even TRIPLE - the value of your coupon.
Your .75 off a box of Cheerios, becomes $1.50 of a box of Cheerios. And when Cheerios were on sale at Acme for $1.75 a box, I used my 4 coupons to get 4 boxes for $1. (And I eat cereal every morning for breakfast, so it goes quick.)

I'll explain doubling and tripling coupons in a future posting.

Some readers may also be thinking, there's no way you can be getting anything good shopping like that.
Here are some recent purchases:
Sure deodorant for .50 each.
Pampers diapers - 120 count -  for $15.
Huggies 84 count baby wipes for $.75.
Gillette Razors (ProFusion) for $2 for the actual razor with 2 blades.
Colgate toothpaste - paid .10 by store for each tube I bought.

And no. I'm not like those extreme couponers you see on TV - the morons who buy 125 cases of diapers and they don't even have a baby.
I buy what I need and keep track of when I'm going to need it again to watch for coupons and the best prices. And if I have a coupon for something I don’t need, I don't clip it.
Who cares if you can get a can of beans for .25 if you hate beans? You still spent the .25
I'll end this with a couple of other thoughts.

Club Cards - get one. Who cares if they track what you buy if you are saving money? Try to then buy what is on sale at each store. You get to try different brands and there is never a lack of selection. When you combine store savings with coupons, you can save tons of money.

Stock up - Things like soap, laundry detergent, paper towels, cleaning supplies. They don’t go bad. Buy when you have coupons and when the items are on sale.
I have 7 bottles of All that I bought for under a buck with sales and coupons. Better than paying $5 a bottle when I need it.
Look for other items with long shelf lives. Spaghetti sauce is usually a good example. Buy it when it’s on sale and when you have a coupon. But do not over buy! 50 bottles of sauce you won't use for 5 years just isn’t worth it.


Next blog - either more about coupons and grocery shopping, or lessons I've learned from trout fishing.

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Coming Soon

I admit it. I read my wife's copy of Woman's World. It has some great tips on home, life, work, saving money, and so much more. It also has tasty recipes that are so easy I can follow them.

So I thought why isn't there a place like this for men? Real Men and Dads who are worried about how to balance work and life, save money and time, and generally want good tips on everyday things.

It's great to fantasize about the lifestyle promoted in Maxim and GQ. But how much of that advice is right for the real world?

Coming soon to this space. Ways to save on groceries, cars, beers, dinner out, dinner in, baby products, home improvement products and the things you use every day.
Did you know you can get Gillette razor blades for about $1 each? Coming soon I'll show you how.
Did you know you can get gift certificates for tasty restaurants in your neighborhood for pennies on the dollar? And it's legal!
Did you know how to clean your toilet using soda? You will soon enough.
Or how to strip and refurnish a dresser?
How about the cheapest places to get diapers? I'll keep you up to date on the deals I find.
Do you know how to cook a chicken in a crock pot? And how to get that chicken cheap in the first place?
This blog is going to be about simple things you can do to save money, spend less time doing projects you hate, and have fun while doing it.

I want to share my experiences as a frugal (but not cheap) guy who eats out on a semi-regular basis, uses coupons when he shops, is expecting a new bundle of joy in a few months, just bought a house and is working on home improvement, loves to fish, and hopes he can share a few things he's learned along the way.
Feel free to contact me with questions you might have and I'll see what answers I can find. I can't promise to have every answer, but maybe we'll have some fun on the journey.

Thanks for reading.